Well, I must say that this day was not anything like I expected it to be a couple months ago. Not long ago I did some EMDR and "re-programed" the day of Dad's death. I looked at it not from a caregiver's point of view, but from Little ME's. Don't ask me how, but it took away a lot of the sadness and fear.
"People are like stained glass windows.They sparkle and shine when the sun is out,but when darkness sets in, their true beautyis revealed only if there is a light from within."