tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8041919351515897855.post8707918404738852660..comments2023-11-02T08:33:25.379-04:00Comments on Embrace The Suck: Letting Someone Else Do the CryingMerry MEhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00462036349233154101noreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8041919351515897855.post-16027358922455824642013-05-04T12:28:30.376-04:002013-05-04T12:28:30.376-04:00Mary...I think we are totally Sisters from another...Mary...I think we are totally Sisters from another Mother...I cry about EVERYTHING. Really. And like you I don't care what others think or say...I cry when I cry...while moving I cried...cried because I no longer was able to lift and carry which meant I had to give up control (yeah, that one!) and just being overwhelmed with it all. The morning of the move I went out and said goodbye to the land and the animals and stood there and sobbed...even knowing I was going to new beginnings didn't have much sway.<br />*sigh* But I'm over it now and looking forward to new things.<br /><br />I hope someone will be with me like you will be with Mary if you can. What an Angel of Mercy you are! I too think we know when it is our time, always have.<br /><br />Poor Bella...I always felt so badly for the wee ones when they were sick because they can't tell you what is ailing them most. It's good she has you Mary, who understands her needs.<br /><br />Speaking of Kleenex, I hear you on that one!<br /><br />Have a great weekend Sister and know you are loved by me...<br />xoxoxoAkasaWolfSonghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04128887650617351563noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8041919351515897855.post-15439909928269521732013-05-03T15:36:32.236-04:002013-05-03T15:36:32.236-04:00Being able to cry freely and let out what is in yo...Being able to cry freely and let out what is in your heart is so important at every age.<br /><br />it's when I can't cry because of family teachings to block feelings and ignore pain or deny it, that it all becomes so stuck and gains momentum with every other blocked tear, that becomes so hard to deal with in future years...<br /><br />Let it out NOW so that it isn't so insurmountable later on.<br /><br />I think your friend is right, we do have a 'knowing', and it is also soothing to know somebody will be holding our hand and closing our eyes when we go...<br /><br />((hugs))Constancehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02702046097986873803noreply@blogger.com